Alive Worship Review

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Teaching Series: The Face of Love

Theme: Masks – Love is Truthful

Bible: John 4:1-39

Attendance: 293

First Time Guests: 12

Volunteers: 33

Length of Service: 50 minutes x 2

Breakdown: The Middle School crowd was jacked up!  With spring fever in the air and testing going on they were NOT interested in singing and listening to a message.  It was CRAZY!  The High School crowd however was engaged and the worship time was intense with some real healing that took place with over a dozen teenagers.  We integrated a couple of vids and used masks as an object lesson so I will give the creativity a B -.  Overall a good night but incredibly taxing on the volunteers.

Enough with Enough

When it comes to ministry I have never understood the concept of enough.  I know my critics will say that I care too much about numbers or how big my ministry is but the simple fact of the matter is how much IS enough?  When are you capped off?  When do you reach the point of crossing the line of “that church is TOO big”?  At what point do you say to the next guy, “I’m sorry we are full go somewhere else.” (Basically saying in the literal since, “go to hell.”)

My daughter comes to me after being told to clean her room ever 15 minutes, “Is this clean enough?”.  It drives me crazy!  Many in the church have similar attitudes.  I want to do JUST enough to feel good about myself.  We use great excuses for enough, I need more time for “margin” or “family” or “me time”.  I don’t see that in scripture.  I do see in the heroes of the faith an urgency to tell as many people the Gospel of Jesus as possible.  They assembled massive crowds, and spoke boldly.  They endured, they pushed the envelope they never said ENOUGH.

Jesus when approached by his disciples in Matthew 14, after a long day of ministry the crowds were beginning to get hungry.  The disciples were to the point of enough of this it has been a long day, we did good, we are tired and hungry, let’s go!  Jesus didn’t believe in enough.  He took a kids sack lunch and fed 5000.  Jesus wasn’t finished, just because a struggle came the ministry didn’t stop.  Enough with Enough!

This is something that obviously God is stirring in me so if you find it totally random simply chalk it up as me needing to vent…hey it’s my blog!

Alive Worship Review

Stealing a page from Josh Griffin

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Teaching Series:  Collide (our monthly joint MS/HS service)

Theme: Water to Wine

Bible: John 2:1-11

Attendance: 330

First Time guests: 26

Volunteers: 35

Length of Service: 90 minutes

Breakdown:  The theme was Water to Wine basically because we had a guest band come in and that was their name.  We discussed the miracle at the wedding banquet focussing on the fact that Jesus doesn’t only care about the BIG stuff.  We then had a moment of prayer with some pretty cool video moments and took Communion together.  The band led in worship and then we prayed over our teachers (being teacher appreciation week) and ended the night with a rockin’ concert…with me stage diving of course.  All in all a homerun of a night.

Systems and Staffing

Listening to a teaching from Andy Stanley recently and evaluating not only the size of our ministry but the overall health of the ministry and its leaders I felt compelled to restructure some of the way we do things here.  No grand changes really, the bulk of folk won’t even initially realize a shift.  Every organization has systems in place.  Some systems are built for success and some are built for failure.  Steven Furtick worshipped with us last Sunday, he is a pastor at a church in Charlotte.  He is doing amazing things in a short amount of time.  Thousands of peoples lives are changed because of his leadership and submission to Jesus.  However, the thing I love the most about Steven is he put in systems from the beginning to handle growth.  I have also seen some churches that hired a bunch of staff, got a praise band and thought that would be enough, that system is designed for failure.

As important as the right system is the right staff, it is just as important.  I am a youth pastor of 300 students and over 40 volunteers.  Due to our financial situation as a church the only paid staff I have is an amazing ministry assistant.  The rest of my “staff” are volunteers.

My staff:

Audra Rheaume – Worship Leader

Bobby Webster – Youth Leader

Alicia Medeiros – Service Coordinator

Cathy Oliver – Small Groups Director

Keeley Stephens – HS Advisor / Pulpit teacher

Rusty Metts – MS Advisor

RJ Grubbs/Andy Macauley – Tech Directors

Beekur – Recreation Director

And I am currently recruiting a Campus Director to oversee my campus ministries and an Outreach Director to insure we are serving and reaching our community.

Hybels says that lack of leadership should be a sin.  Leaders we have to do more than simply talk and inspire we must structure our organizations to reach not simply students but entire communities.  I am begging God for wisdom, creativity and insight to stretch us as an organization.  How are your systems/staffing set up?  What have been some victories/struggles you have faced?  Let me know.

Culture

No offense to Walt Mueller but I am sick of the word culture.  It has become the most overused word in church vernacular since relevant.  I am sick of how some use the word as a diseased amoeba that we must protect ourselves from.  I am sick of how it is used as a convenient way to over generalize important issues of our day like media influence, social networking, violence, racism, war and a world economy.  I am sick of the way the Church acts as though it is not PART of culture.

Simple fact of the matter is that you can’t separate Church and Culture.  The religious influence on the people is one of the crucial marks of culture in society.  We should be asking not how is this culture affecting this people group or that organization but rather ask how is the New Testament Church affecting Culture.

The internet is here to stay, so are TV, Movies, Democrats, Republicans, Hate and Love.  How do we as a church navigate through this world and proclaim Jesus.  I strained a ligament in my knee a few weeks ago and last night I tweaked it playing with my 3 year old…holding it in pain she saw that I had a small scratch and went to get a band-aid for my booboo.   In her world if she fixed the scratch the pain would go away.  Church, stop focusing on the scratch…stop focusing on the surface level evidences of pain and let’s go deeper into the soul and offer healing. Healing that comes only from Jesus.   Then, the church will begin to AFFECT culture not simply be observing and commenting on it.

Study Jesus and you find someone who went out of his way to AFFECT culture not to comment on it.  Even when he commented on it he was stirring the pot of the establishment.  I pray that you who read this read it with it’s intent to encourage spiritual leaders to LEAD with love, compassion and mission.  Let other people study why.

The Ministry of Assistants

I totally ripped the title off from Bill Hybels but it was good.  Today is Assistants day and I recognize that it is yet another holiday invented by Hallmark to sell cards it is a day I will gladly celebrate.  Nancy Webster is my ministry assistant and as I am typing this out she is scrambling around getting the church ready for students tonight.  I feel like I take advantage of her and the great thing about her is that she would find that offensive for me to say.

She is the picture of what a pastors assistant should be.

She protects my time – she schedules my appointments and protects my study time and my time off.

She protects my family – she gets in my face if it seems I am not spending time with my family.  Also she loves my family, she is a friend to my wife and loves my girls.

She protects me from me – she has total access to tell me when I am being a tail…and she HAS had to use it.

She loves and buys into our ministry – this is not just a paycheck for her, she views this as a calling for her.

She brings a solid voice to a room full of random, impulsive ones.

I hope that as pastors you appreciate what your assistants do for you and if they don’t do all that I included above I hope you grow stones and fire the one you have and hire someone like Nancy…I said LIKE Nancy!

Thanks Nancy…Happy Assistants day

Bring a gift of laughter

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Psalm 100:1-2  On your feet now—applaud God! Bring a gift of laughter, sing yourselves into his presence.

I love to laugh.  It is my favorite thing to do.  I love to make other people laugh.  I remember early in my ministry, trying to find “my voice”, trying to find the style that God would give me to present his word.  One Bible Study I just started making fun of Peter.  The kids rolled.  They said it finally made the Bible “real” to them.  That was it…my voice.

I have been told from time to time that I need to be more serious or more “pastoral”.  I don’t really know what that means or how to do that.  I could no longer stop using humor to present Gods word as I could do it in Russian.  I think God likes humor.  I see the way he talks to the pharisees and his use of hyperbole and irony to get them cornered and realize surely it would have made the people in ear shot snicker.

I love creativity, I am not that creative but I love it.  I love finding new ways to present an old story.  I love to wow people with the Gospel.  To the critics who say that is unnecessary I would just point out, was it really necessary for God to use a burning bush, a donkey, bright lights and angels at the birth, walking on water, ascending into heaven?  The answer is no, he didn’t have to but it was more effective communication and a lot cooler.

Now I am not saying that humor and creativity should outshine the truth of God’s word.  There has never been a time where truth is needed more.  However, if there is a better way to communicate.  If there is a way to make people smile or laugh while discovering the mysteries of God, shouldn’t we try?

I don’t know it is just a thought.  I am going to go watch Monte Python now.

Happy birthday baby…I love you

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Today is my wife’s birthday.  She was gone for a week with my girls for spring break to visit her mother and it was torturous.  I have learned that my life doesn’t work nearly as well without her.  She is my best friend, my favorite person to make laugh and I love being her husband.  I am good at it.  I thank God that he blessed me with her.  She is my worship pastor for our youth ministry, one of the reasons being that her voice still melts me.  She is an incredible mommy.  She is the teacher every student at Macedonia wants to have.  She is gorgeous and her eyes still pierce my heart.

I have known her for over 15 years, we have been married for 10 of those.  She has always had a part of my heart.  She is so darn lovable.

I love you baby, Happy Birthday.

The power of Easter

I am resting after an incredible day of Worship and Celebration and Family.  This weekend we had over 1100 people in the auditorium and over 100 in KidsPointe!  That is a lot of people hearing about the power of the resurrection that now lives in us as Christians.  Ricsha and the team did a great job and the “blood” creative moment was unbelievable.  I mentioned Saturday night during offering that Christmas gets all the press but Easter is the most incredible day for us as believers.  BTW, The inaugural Saturday service was a huge success!  I am proud to be part of Pointe North, I am proud to be a part of what The church is doing, I am thankful for a loving Jesus that let’s me do it.

be careful what you chase

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Last night was Collide our joint Middle School/High School worship service.  One thing that has become a tradition for collide are our opening acts being BIG and a SPECTACLE…another tradition is them NOT working!  Last night felt a bit like a dog chasing a car and actually caught it…be careful not to bite off more than you can chew.  I love the spirit of our team that feels we can pull off anything.  However, a tip for us in the future and a tip for those of you who run productions is to make sure you CAN pull it off with EXCELLENCE, otherwise it is simply a distraction.

Last night was amazing, over 300 students + 40 adults, it was awesome to see that many teens worshipping God.  So, not to take away from what God DID do let me give you a few points on how to keep from catching YOUR car.

  • If at all possible do a full run through, including tech.  This will allow you to find gliches ahead of time.
  • Pray and get a red pen out.  Every GREAT idea doesn’t have to be done.
  • Leave time in your program…creative elements always seem to take more time than you alot for.
  • Make sure if you invite your senior pastor, all these things are done (last nights mistake)
  • Don’t over analyze after it is over like I am now…rejoice that the Word of God was presented, worship took place and 345 people were exposed to the presence of God.